The thing you do and don’t do has the tendency of making your relationship strong or weak. Try not to make does errors that would make your relationship suffer. Make it interesting and do those things that would sustain the love that exists in your relationship. If you choose to be reluctant, then you should be ready to watch helplessly as it ends. Below are the errors you should not do:
- Having no concern for the feelings of your partner is an error that most people are guilty of. When you are not aware of what your partners is facing, what is actually happening to your partner and not being able to respond positively when you are expected; it implies that you are insensitive. No partner will want to be with someone who is insensitive. Someone who is careless and does not appreciate the feeling of his/her partner will be making a mistake that could eventually make a relationship fade away.
- A partner who has the progress of the relationship at heart should never betray the trust that is shared by both partners. When you betray that trust, you might not stand a chance to regain it again, you might find it difficult to be forgiven. Strive as much as possible not to cheat on your partner or share information or secret of your partner to other people because such act would be betrayal and it has the tendency of dissolving a strong relationship.
- Being over-protective of your partner should be avoided. Most people don’t realize that close examination and much questioning of their partner’s motives and every moves makes the platform on which the relationship stands so uncomfortable and unbearable. You need to give your partner some space. This is where the trust comes in because in a relationship where trust exists, there would be no need for critical inspection, rather each partners enjoys the liberty of living comfortably. Do not trace your partner every move because it would cause great problems in your relationship.
- It is very important to support your partner because failure to do so can cause misunderstanding in your relationship. Try as mush as possible to always support your partner’s suggestions, needs, intentions, goals, decisions, and emotions. Do forget that you as a partner are expected to provide first class emotional support to your loved one without hesitation. Being unsupportive to your partner will only lead to shortening the life span of your relationship and that should be avoided.
Finally, I strongly advise that much argument should be avoided at all cost. It is better not to even involve in any argument at all because it does no good. At the end; problems are not solved, hearts are still bitter and sad and a peaceful solution not reached. Most times, in the quest of pointing out who is right and wrong, more problems are created and instead of achieving a mutual understanding, people add more fuel to the fire which eventually burns off their relationship. That will not be your case as long as you avoid the errors.