The effect of bitterness and anger in your relationship


  The feeling of bitterness and anger in your relationship can destroy the love you once shared with your partner. It is an unfortunate situation for partners who love themselves to harbor bitter feeling or anger against themselves because of misunderstandings or actions which can be looked into and settled. Bitterness and anger in a relationship is very unpleasant and if not taken care of properly; would land a relationship in a terrible fate.

  When ever you notice something you don’t like in your partner; an act or behavior in your partner which you don’t fancy, try to talk with you partner, don’t hold it in your mind. Initially, it might not be a big deal and so you try to cope with your partner’s behavior which you dislike but as the days go by and your partner continues with those things you dislike, it would lead to you being so bitter and angry and this would make you begin to wish things where different with your partner’s behavior.

  If partners could just sort things out in an understanding manner instead of yelling and quarreling they would find out that these feeling of bitterness and anger could be solved and peace achieved to the fullest expectation. If you know that you can no more continue with your partner because of the things you don’t like in him/her, it is better to separate peacefully with your dignity instead of holding on to a relationship that might eventually crash. On the other hand, if you truly love your partner and still what to continue, you need to find a quite time with your partner, sit together and find out what the cause of your bitterness and anger is, after which you and you partner should seek for possible ways to overcome the unfavorable situation.
 
  If your love for your partner is real, you would always have the growth and progress of your relationship at heart and instead of having the feelings of bitterness and anger over a little mistakes or deed by your partner, you would make correction out of love and your partner will understand a mistake made and gradually accept to make the needed correction. Love is worth protecting, so do every thing possible to keep and protect your loved one and without bitterness and anger.