The type of life you lead and live determines who you are. Those things you do that people see and take account of are what they use to evaluate your kind of person. Our words most times are seen as incomplete until we back them up with actions and that’s when they are regarded. So your actions contributes a lot to your relationship and those actions whether good or bad counts.
Actions actually speak louder than our voices. Just as the saying goes; when you inwardly want to do something nice; like proclaiming so much love to your partner but failing to actualize the love you’re feeling by probably lending a helping hand in some domestic activities or doing something new just to make your partner feel loved, then your love is not felt and that makes your partner feel not loved.
The way you act to certain issue arising between you and your loved one count. In a situation where you are expected to be sensitive and supportive, you should be careful not to displays actions that shows insensibility and carelessness. When you do things the ways you wish, being selfish and self centered even to your partner, how do you expected him/she to feel? Your partner will not be happy and it would create an uncomfortable zone for both of you thereby affecting your relationship.
Your actions includes your character and habit and these factors are capable of attracting people towards you if they are good, while the bad character and habit you posses would only scare people away. You should try to build yourself on the right direction. Score yourself positively so that other cannot feel your negative part, because your negative side would always draw you back, and if you allow that part that will not favour your relationship to win, then you’ve allowed your relationship to suffer.
Take actions that will benefit your relationship; be friendly, compassionate, generous committed etc. be quick to amend in case of any problems and also learn how to apologize to your partner each time the need arise. You would not understand what a positive action can do to your love life. Use your good part as a way towards actions that would add great lovely flame to your relationship.
Finally, you should always define your intention and purpose towards anything you do in life. If your intention and purpose towards your relationship is for a lasting one and that should be everyone’s purpose in a relationship, you would be able to do whatever it takes to sustain your loved one even in times of crises. That action alone will let you be patient, kind and present in every situation. Certainly, you shall be filled with gratitude for your success, but if you let those negative actions surface, then things will not go well with your relationship. Mould your actions, cut down those unnecessary behaviors and you will be happy at last.