If you truly want to know people, you have to find out about their thoughts, feelings, fears, desires, fantasies, memories, etc. These experiences are personal. They are responsible for whom a person really is. Exploring these features in a person makes you really have a view of who you want to be your partner. It also helps you to ascertain the connection and compatibility rate of your partner. If you care about someone, you need to know more about the person so that you can be able to respect them.
You don’t have to depend solely on the outer part of a person. Most times it’s not enough because the outer quality of an individual can not really and absolutely tell who he/she is. Try spending quality time with your partner so that you get to fine out those things you wouldn’t notice if you spend just a little time together. Talk deep into your personal lives, determine and know your likes and dislikes. All these you need in order to truly know someone.
With a deep knowledge of your loved one, there will be great understanding. At times we think we should understand someone and be understood in turn but it does not always end like that, because despite the time spent together, no matter how long; if the deep and inner parts of our lives are not shared, there would be no understanding. It is essential for you to present your inner self so that it will be so clear and easy for your partner to determine who you truly are.