Nowadays people tend to ask this question because it is really difficult to confirm if one is truly in love or if it’s just lust or infatuations all along. Love is an amazing thing and where ever it exists, it does not hide itself. If you are in love with someone, you don’t care what people say about your choice. No one has to approve or support you to be able to love someone. You are glad and impressed that you have this special person in your life. What this person is in life doesn’t really determine the level of your love, you just feel this connection and flow whenever you are with this person, even if he/she does something that is not amusing or funny, you ‘re just satisfied and happy to be with this person. That is true love.
People would want to make suggestions for you but you don’t have live up to their point of views and perception, their opinion about your relationship doesn’t matter to you, all you know is that you love this person; that is true love. When you are truly in love, you get affected emotionally when your partner is depressed and sad. You show care in things that matters to him/her and feel like offering to do whatever at your power that would help. This things you do consciously or unconsciously, all that matters is that you feel alright when you are involved in every aspect of his/her life, whether rain or sunshine, good or bad, ups and downs; that is true love.
Some people would be in a relationship because of what they would gain from the relationship; that is not true love. When you love someone without any selfish reasons, you are just concerned about a mutual goal, in hardship or plenty, that is true love. People go into a relationship because of money and when the money is no more there the relationship ends, the love dies and everything surrounding the existence of their relationship suffers; that is not true love. True love endures all things and it does not stand the idea of breaking up. When you are truly in love, you will feel disappointed, bad and sad when the relationship hits the rock. To you it feels as if the world has come to an end, there is the guilt in you as if you caused the whole problem, you just seem so restless and you keep on missing your partner as if there is no one else in this whole world you can love again. Because of this true love, you keep on thinking about this person everyday, remember all the nice times you had together and wish everything would come back to normal; that is true love and it implies that you are deeply in love.